It's all about love, we are all one

In our fast-paced, modern world, love is often seen as something we do—a gesture, a word, or an action directed towards others. We are encouraged to "spread love," to be loving, to show love in tangible ways. Yet, this common understanding of love, while beautiful in its intention, may actually be a misalignment with its true essence.

Love, as taught in various spiritual traditions across the globe, is not merely a projection or an act of doing. It is not something you must effortfully extend towards others, nor is it a goal to achieve by becoming more loving. This view of love is particularly challenging in a world where we are bombarded with narratives of division and conflict. We are constantly told that there is right and wrong, good and bad, and this polarity makes the concept of unconditional love seem almost impossible. How can we love in a world where darkness seems so prevalent?

We also tend to differentiate love based on who we are directing it towards—one kind of love for parents, another for partners, friends, or even strangers. Each form of love comes with its own expectations and rules. Yet, when these expectations are unmet, the love we thought was unconditional begins to wane. This is the fragile nature of love when it is seen as a doing.

True, unconditional love, however, transcends these limitations. It is not bound by the conditions we place on it or the labels we assign to different relationships. Instead, it is a state of being, not an action. It arises naturally when we let go of the ego—the self with all its stories, judgments, and separations.

When we dissolve the barriers of identity and ego, we tap into the pure essence of love, which is not something we do but something we are. This love is boundless, infinite, and unconditional, because it is the very fabric of existence itself. In this state, there is no "other" to love; there is only oneness, a deep merging with what is, beyond any perceptions or labels.

Understanding love in this deeper, more genuine way allows us to experience the unity and oneness that spiritual teachings speak of. It’s a love that simply is, unburdened by the narratives of right and wrong, and it is within this space that we find true peace and fulfillment.

If this resonates with you, I invite you to explore this concept further, to delve into the teachings that reveal the essence of love not as something you must do, but as something you already are. Let us journey together toward this deeper understanding, where love transcends action and becomes the very state of our being.